There I am… tonight, forcing laughter, faking smiles, same old tired, lonely place, lonely room with my imaginary friend. Just came back from a long walk regardless of my fractured ankle. I wanted to meet her so much just to talk to her but she insist. She finally tell me she loves me and ask me to go back home.
I was covered with sweat and tears all over me, drenched in the passing rain but who cares, I did stupid things because I love her so much.
There is no love without struggle and there is no struggle without sacrifice and sincerity and without sacrifice and sincerity, it is impossible to love. Love never hurt you in any way but your perspective does. So don’t be afraid to fall in love, even with the same thing or the same person every day. Every relationship has its own problems, but what makes it perfect is when you still want to be there for her when everything sucks…
“ true love is not like sailing on a gentle sea… but to go through a rough storm and safely reach to the destination
This is for that time she left dozens of urgent messages on your cell phone, and when you called her back, she spent three hours complaining two sentences her boyfriend said to her over dinner and even though you thought her boyfriend was a chump and a jerk, you assured her that it was all ok and she shouldn’t worry about it.
This is for that time she interrupted the best sleeping time you ever had in weeks just to rant about a rumor that romantically linked her and the guy she thinks is the most repulsive person in the world and even though you thought it was immature and you had nothing against the guy, you wake up for two hours and helped her out anyways. This is also for that time she didn’t have a date, so after numerous vows that there was nothing “serious” between the two of you, she dragged you to her friends gathering where you knew nobody as she is really closed to you, shamelessly with you, justifying each fit of reckless teasing by announcing to everyone: “oh, but we’re just friends!” and even though you were invited purely as a symbolic warm body for her ego, you went anyways. Because you’re nice like that.
The nice guys don’t often get credit where credit is due and I wish I could logically explain this trend, but I can’t. From what I have observed everywhere and what I have learned from talking to friends or collegues in my workplace, the only conclusion I can form is that many girls are just illogical. Many of them claim they just want to date a nice guy, but when presented with such a specimen, they say irrational, confusing things such as “oh, he’s too nice to date” or “he would be a good boyfriend but he’s not for me” or “he already puts up with so much from me, I couldn’t possibly ask him out!” or the most frustrating of all: “no, it would ruin our friendship.” Yet, they continue to lament the lack of datable men in the world, and they expect their too-nice-to-date male friends to sympathize and apologize for the men that are jerks.
Sorry, guys, girls like that are beyond my ability to fathom. I can’t figure out why the connection breaks down between what they say (I want a nice guy!) and what they do (I’m going to sleep with this complete a** now!). But one thing I can do, is say that the nice-guy-finishes-last phenomenon doesn’t last forever. There are definitely many girls who grow out of that train of thought and realize they should be dating the nice guys, not taking them for granted. The tricky part is finding those girls, and even trickier, finding the ones that are single.
So, until those girls are found, I propose a toast to all the nice guys. You know who you are, and I know you’re sick of hearing yourself described as ubiquitously nice. But the truth of the matter is, the world needs your patience in the department store, your holding open of doors, your party escorting services, your propensity to be a sucker for a pretty smile. For all the crazy, insane, absurd things you tolerate, for all the situations where you are the faceless, nameless hero, my accolades, my acknowledgement, and my gratitude go out to you. You do have credibility in this society, and your well deserved vindication is coming.
But if you are in love with that girl, please don’t ever give up your hope. Stay strong and keep showing your love towards her no matter what until she gives in. I know, because i’ve gone through shit…
“ My baby got that angels eyes, cherry lips kisses on a bright blue sky.. I love it when she smiles because that’s when my heart melts and my soul running wild!
Three simple words can save a life. They can make you reconsider and they can make you think twice. “I love you”… Shows that someone really cares that you don’t have to be lonely and you don’t have to be scared.
Don’t ever take advantage of this simple but strong words. When you said it,
make sure you mean it, if you don’t, your partner will do something crazy like believing in it.
Love them not because of who they are, but because of who they really are when they are with you. Accept their imperfections because love is what makes them perfect in every ways possible…
Love isn’t always perfect. It is not a fairytale or a storybook with happy endings. It doesn’t always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges and fighting to be together. Holding on to each other & never letting go no matter what.
It is a short word, easy to spell, difficult to define and impossible to live without. Love is a form of work but most of all, love is realizing that every hour, every minute and every second was worth it because you did it together.
Don’t let each other solve any problems alone. You are there when it first started so go all the way with each other.
Love is when there are a million things you want to say to someone but when they look you in the eyes and hold you in their arms, nothing in life matters other than being with that person at that very moment…
-A BEAUTIFUL girl can make you DIZZY,
-Like you’ve been drinking JACK and COKE all morning.
-She can make you feel HIGH
-Full of the single greatest commodity known to man:
-Promise of a BETTER DAY,
-Promise of a GREATER HOPE,
-Promise of a NEW TOMORROW.
-This particular aura, can be found in the GATE of a beautiful girl.
-In her SMILE,
-And in her SOUl.
-In the way she makes every ROTTEN LITTLE THING ABOUT LIFE SEEM LIKE IT’S GONNA BE OK.
By: Rebecca Tsingine
Hahahahaha!!! My family is so cute, getting all excited about the great news that me and Ash telling them about. Yes, we are getting engage but my family is all getting ready for me fast and I don’t even prepare yet. But I eventually will. My brother told me about what to prepare and stuff and what needs to do so that I won’t be very “kanchiong” when the day came. There’s a lot of things need to do this year and I need to focus more on finding a new job too. To open another bank account for this and focus on everything about my future with her. This is what you can do when you love someone, you go all the way with them no matter what. Well, I am so happy with her. Each and everyday, my life is more brighter than ever. Love is amazing!!! I never felt anything like this before. Thank you so much Ash! I LOVE YOU!!! Thank you Allah for giving me a chance in life, in happiness everyday. Alhamdullilah.
Dear Future Wife,
Hey! You’ve got a amazing man waiting for you. One who will love you for who you are and not for what you do. One who will appreciate everything and anything! One who will give you motivation and keep you up on your feet. You will feel like you’re on top of the world when you are married with me. Marriage will be a dream for you!!! Happiness.. Bundles of joy.. Unforgettable memories.. and blessings are yet to come.
Ps. You will be my bestfriend & my lover…. What more could I ask for (: I Love You Ash!!!